Tips for parents taking an active role in their teen’s overcoming addiction

Part 4 of helping your teen as they are overcoming addiction

Here are some tips:

• Start a conversation by asking open-ended questions. Open-ended questions…
  • cannot be answered “yes or “no
  • allow your child to give spontaneous and honest answers—she should tell her story in her own words
  • usually begin with:
    • “Tell me about…
    • “Describe…
    • “To what extent…
    • “What was that like?
    • “Help me understand…
• Affirm his worth, courage and challenges. Affirming statements show your understanding and appreciation. For example:
  • “I know how hard this is for you.
  • “You showed a lot of courage.
  • “You overcame a major obstacle last week.
  • “I am so glad you are home.
  • “You are doing great this week.
  • “No one does this perfectly.
  • “I am proud of you.
  • “I love you.

Remember that recovery from addiction is a long walk that is best taken in the company of loving involved families.